Definition of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is a pattern of coercive control used by one person to gain or maintain power and control over another in an intimate or family relationship. It is not a single incident — it is a systematic pattern of behaviour.
Types of Abuse
- Physical Hitting, slapping, kicking, strangling, using weapons
- Emotional/Psychological Humiliation, threats, gaslighting, isolation
- Sexual Forced intercourse, reproductive coercion, sexual humiliation
- Financial Controlling money, preventing employment, debt coercion
- Digital Phone monitoring, location tracking, online harassment
Classification by Relationship
- Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) — current or former spouse/partner
- Family Violence — parent/child, sibling, extended family
- Elder Abuse — against persons 60+ years
- Child Abuse — physical, emotional, sexual, neglect
- Honour-Based Violence (HBV) — perpetrated in name of family honour
Prevalence
1 in 3 women worldwide (30%) experience physical or sexual violence by an intimate partner or non-partner in their lifetime. IPV accounts for the majority of violence against women.
Reliable statistics are limited due to significant underreporting. Estimates suggest 20–40% of Arab women experience some form of IPV. Cultural, legal, and social barriers substantially suppress reporting rates across all GCC countries.
Duluth Power & Control Wheel
The Duluth model identifies the tactics abusers use around a core of power and control:
Using Intimidation
Smashing things, destroying property, displaying weapons, threatening looks and actions
Emotional Abuse
Putting partner down, making them feel bad, humiliation, mind games
Isolation
Controlling who they see/talk to, limiting outside activities, using jealousy as justification
Minimising/Denying/Blaming
"You made me do it", denying abuse occurred, shifting responsibility
Using Children
Threats regarding custody, using children to relay messages, undermining parenting
Economic Control
Preventing employment, taking earnings, making all financial decisions
Coercive Control — Key Signs
- Social isolation from friends and family
- Financial control — no access to money or bank accounts
- Technology monitoring — tracking apps, reading messages
- Reproductive coercion — controlling contraception/pregnancy
- Monitoring movements and whereabouts at all times
- Controlling what victim wears, eats, or does
- Degradation and humiliation, especially in public
- Threats against children, pets, or family members
Cycle of Violence (Walker, 1979)
Presenting Patterns in Clinical Settings
History Red Flags
- Frequent ED or clinic visits with vague complaints
- Vague somatic complaints (headaches, pelvic pain, GI symptoms)
- Delayed presentation of injuries
- Injuries inconsistent with given history
- Partner present at every consultation, refusing to leave
- Patient looks to partner before answering questions
- Partner answers all questions on patient's behalf
Physical Examination Red Flags
- Bilateral injuries (as opposed to unilateral falls)
- Central body injuries (trunk, chest, abdomen, genitalia)
- Patterned/defensive injuries
- Injuries in various stages of healing
- Dental and eye injuries
- Strangulation signs: petechiae over face/neck/sclera, hoarse voice, neck bruising, dysphagia
- Injuries during pregnancy (abdomen, breasts)
HITS Screening Tool
The HITS tool is a validated, brief screening instrument for domestic violence. Ask routinely in primary care and ED settings.
In the last 12 months, how often does your partner:
Scale: 1=Never, 2=Rarely, 3=Sometimes, 4=Fairly often, 5=Frequently. Sherin KM et al, 1998.
WAST — Woman Abuse Screening Tool
A 2-question validated tool suitable for busy clinical environments:
Q1: "In general, how would you describe your relationship — a lot of tension, some tension, or no tension?"
Q2: "Do you and your partner work out arguments with great difficulty, some difficulty, or no difficulty?"
DASH Risk Assessment Checklist
The Domestic Abuse, Stalking, and Honour-Based Violence (DASH) risk assessment contains 27 items. Key categories:
| Category | Key Questions | Risk Weight |
|---|---|---|
| Lethality | Strangulation, threats to kill, victim fears being killed | Critical |
| Escalation | Frequency/severity increasing, weapons present or accessible | High |
| Children | Threats involving children, children witnessing abuse | High |
| Pregnancy | Pregnant or recently given birth (within 18 months) | Medium |
| Perpetrator factors | Substance misuse, mental health issues, jealousy/obsession | Medium |
| Stalking | Monitoring, following, repeated contact after separation | Medium |
Legal Framework Across GCC Countries
Saudi Arabia
- Law on Protection from Abuse (2013) — family violence criminalised
- National Family Safety Programme (NFSP) — coordinates child & family protection
- Nahda Society — women's support organisation
- 1919 National Family Safety hotline
- Victims may seek protection orders through the courts
UAE
- Federal Law 28/2008 against domestic violence
- Dubai Police Family Protection Unit
- Dubai Foundation for Women & Children (DFWAC)
- 800-HOPE (4673) — national DV helpline
- Protection orders available; violators face criminal penalties
Qatar
- Law 22/2021 — Family Protection Law enacted
- Ministry of Social Development family services
- 919 — social protection hotline
- Qatar Foundation for Social Work involvement
Kuwait / Bahrain / Oman
- Bahrain: 80008001 hotline; Family Court provisions
- Kuwait: Social Affairs Ministry services; legal provisions developing
- Oman: Royal Oman Police welfare units; developing legislative framework
- All three countries recognise DV under general criminal codes
Cultural Factors Influencing DV in GCC
Social & Cultural Barriers to Disclosure
- Family honour (sharaf/ird): Reporting abuse seen as bringing shame to the family
- Wasta (influence/connections): Perpetrator's social connections may deter victims from reporting to authorities
- Tribal considerations: Intra-family disputes handled within tribe; police involvement discouraged
- Misinterpretation of Islamic teachings regarding marital rights (Qur'an 4:34 — scholarly debate)
- Patriarchal family structures: Women expected to maintain family unit at all costs
System-Level Barriers
- Kafala sponsorship system: Migrant domestic workers' residency tied to employer — extreme vulnerability
- Mahram requirement: Women may need male guardian approval to access certain services
- Passport confiscation: Illegal but widely practised; leaves workers unable to leave
- Language barriers: Non-Arabic speaking migrants face additional obstacles
- Fear of deportation: Deters undocumented workers and migrants from reporting
GCC DV Resources — Quick Reference
| Country | Hotline | Organisation |
|---|---|---|
| Saudi Arabia | 1919 | National Family Safety Programme / Nahda Society |
| UAE | 800-HOPE (4673) | Dubai Foundation for Women & Children |
| Qatar | 919 | Ministry of Social Development |
| Bahrain | 80008001 | Ministry of Social Development |
| Kuwait | 00965-2401-0600 | Ministry of Social Affairs |
| Oman | 24411011 | Royal Oman Police Welfare Unit |
The SAFE Approach to DV Disclosure
S — Safety
- Always see the patient alone — no partner, family member, or child present
- Use a professional interpreter — never the partner, family member, or untrained staff
- Use same-gender interpreter when culturally indicated
- Ensure private, confidential environment
- Have a safe word/exit strategy if interrupted
A — Ask
- Routine enquiry normalises the question: "We ask everyone…"
- Use validated tools: HITS or WAST screening
- Ask directly, without judgment: "Is anyone at home hurting you?"
- Listen without interrupting; believe what you are told
- Do not pressure disclosure — respect autonomy
F — Find (Document)
- Document injuries objectively using a body map
- Use verbatim quotes in quotation marks in the record
- Photograph injuries with written, informed consent
- Note size, colour, shape, location of all injuries
- Maintain forensic awareness — chain of evidence
E — Evaluate
- Complete DASH risk assessment
- Determine safeguarding referral threshold
- Assess immediate safety needs
- Involve social work / safeguarding team as appropriate
- Safety plan collaboratively with the patient
Documentation Principles
Core Documentation Principles
- Use objective language — describe what you observe, not your interpretation
- Record patient's words in verbatim quotation marks: e.g., "He punched me in the face"
- Use correct anatomical terminology for injury location
- Document: size (cm), colour, shape, edges, tenderness, stage of healing
- Record date and time of documentation AND date/time injury said to have occurred
- Note who was present in the consultation and what language/interpreter was used
- Document refusals and patient's stated reasons
Body Map Use
- Use front-and-back body diagram to mark all injury sites
- Number each injury and correspond to written descriptions
- Mark bruises, lacerations, burns, bite marks separately
- Photograph with ruler/scale indicator and patient consent form on file
- Store photographs securely in medical record system as per local policy
What NOT to Write
- Avoid: "Patient claims she was hit" — use objective: "Patient states 'he hit me'"
- Avoid victim-blaming language or expressions of disbelief
- Avoid abbreviations that obscure clinical meaning
Mandatory vs Discretionary Reporting — GCC
| Country | Child Abuse | Adult DV | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|
| Saudi Arabia | Mandatory | Discretionary | Report to NFSP; health professionals required for child cases |
| UAE | Mandatory | Discretionary (adult) | Child protection mandatory; DV police referral discretionary for competent adults |
| Qatar | Mandatory | Discretionary | Law 22/2021 allows wider referral; child protection paramount |
| Bahrain | Mandatory | Discretionary | Discretion guided by risk assessment |
Safety Planning — NNEDV Framework
If the victim plans to stay
- Identify the safest rooms/routes in the home
- Agree a code word with trusted person to signal danger
- Memorise key phone numbers (support line, trusted friend)
- Keep charged phone accessible at all times
- Know where the nearest shelter or safe house is
If the victim plans to leave
- Pack an emergency bag (documents, medications, money, clothing)
- Key documents: passport, ID, residency permit, birth certificates, financial records
- Contact embassy or consulate if foreign national
- Contact DV hotline for safe accommodation options
- Do not leave digital traces — use private browsing
- Inform a trusted person of plan and timeline
Digital safety
- Check phone for tracking/monitoring apps
- Change passwords after leaving on a safe device
- Consider getting a new SIM/phone number
Domestic Workers Under the Kafala System
Migrant domestic workers represent one of the most vulnerable groups in GCC countries. The kafala (sponsorship) system creates significant legal and practical barriers to seeking help.
Risk Factors
- Residency permit tied to employer — leaving = illegal overstay
- Passport confiscation (illegal but widespread)
- Living within employer's home — no escape route
- Language barriers and social isolation
- Lack of knowledge of local laws and rights
- Debt bondage from recruitment fees
- Fear of deportation if they report abuse
Support Pathways for Domestic Workers
- Contact home country embassy or consulate
- Ministry of Labour complaint mechanisms (all GCC)
- UAE: Tadbeer centres / DFWAC shelter
- Qatar: Ministry of Labour migrant worker helpline
- IOM (International Organisation for Migration) — repatriation support
- NGO networks (limited access in GCC but present)
Honour-Based Violence (HBV)
HBV refers to violence committed by family/community members to protect or restore perceived honour. It may involve multiple perpetrators and carries a very high risk of femicide.
Recognition Indicators
- Multiple family members involved in bringing patient to hospital
- Victim blaming themselves or refusing to implicate family
- History of being "sent away" to country of origin
- Forced marriage threats or pressure
- Victim expressing fear of family (not partner)
- Prior reports to police or social services involving same family
Nursing Response to HBV
- Never use family members as interpreters
- Never disclose patient location to family members
- Treat as HIGH RISK — use DASH HBV section
- Mandatory referral to safeguarding team
- Specialist multi-agency response required
- Do not attempt family mediation in HBV cases
Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)
WHO Classification
- Type I: Clitoridectomy — partial or total removal of clitoris
- Type II: Excision — partial/total removal of clitoris and labia minora
- Type III (Infibulation): Narrowing of vaginal opening by cutting and repositioning labia
- Type IV: All other harmful procedures — pricking, piercing, cauterising
Clinical & Safeguarding Response
- Mandatory reporting for minors in all GCC contexts
- Immediate safeguarding referral if child at risk
- Non-judgmental, sensitive clinical approach for affected women
- Obstetric complications: obstructed labour, perineal tears, PPH — anticipate in birth planning
- Gynaecological complications: chronic pain, UTIs, dyspareunia, menstrual problems
- Psychological support — trauma-informed care essential
Child Abuse Recognition
Types & Indicators
- Physical: Unexplained bruises, patterned injuries, burns, fractures inconsistent with developmental stage
- Emotional: Withdrawal, aggression, delayed emotional development, excessive compliance or defiance
- Sexual: Age-inappropriate sexual knowledge/behaviour, genital injuries, STIs in children
- Neglect: Poor hygiene, persistent hunger, untreated medical conditions, inappropriate clothing
Assessment Tools
- Cardiff Child Protection Noticing Tool: Aids systematic recognition of physical abuse indicators
- Fabricated/Induced Illness (FII): Suspect when symptoms only present when carer present, multiple investigations negative, unexplained illness in multiple siblings
- Always take developmental history to contextualise injuries
- Multi-disciplinary team (MDT) approach mandatory
Elder Abuse
Elder abuse affects persons aged 60+ and is significantly underdetected in healthcare settings, including across GCC countries.
EASE Tool — Elder Abuse Suspicion Index
- 5-question validated tool for cognitively intact older adults
- Covers physical, emotional, financial abuse and neglect
- Score ≥1 positive response = warranting further assessment
- Administer in absence of caregiver
Red Flag Indicators
- Unexplained injuries, malnutrition, dehydration
- Caregiver who is hostile, domineering, or answers for the elder
- Sudden changes in financial situation
- Fear or withdrawal in presence of specific family member
- Delayed or inconsistent presentation for medical care
GCC Hotlines — Quick Reference
| Country | Number | Service | Hours |
|---|---|---|---|
| Saudi Arabia | 1919 | National Family Safety Programme | 24/7 |
| Saudi Arabia | 011-465-5100 | Nahda Society Women's Support | Business hours |
| UAE | 800-4673 (HOPE) | Dubai Foundation for Women & Children | 24/7 |
| UAE | 800-22 | Abu Dhabi Social Support | 24/7 |
| Qatar | 919 | Ministry of Social Development | 24/7 |
| Bahrain | 80008001 | Ministry of Social Development | 24/7 |
| Kuwait | 00965-2401-0600 | Ministry of Social Affairs | Business hours |
| Oman | 24411011 | Royal Oman Police Welfare Unit | 24/7 |
| International | UNHCR hotline | Refugee DV victims — UNHCR country office | Varies |
Trauma-Informed Care Principles
The 6 Key Principles (SAMHSA)
- Safety — Physical and psychological safety of patient and staff
- Trustworthiness & Transparency — Clear communication about processes
- Peer Support — Survivor-led support mechanisms
- Collaboration & Mutuality — Power-sharing in care decisions
- Empowerment & Choice — Restoring sense of control
- Cultural, Historical & Gender Issues — Culturally responsive practice
Clinical Application
- Always ask permission before physical examination
- Explain all procedures before performing them
- Respect right to refuse — document refusal respectfully
- Avoid clinical environments that feel threatening
- Provide choices wherever possible
- Recognise and validate trauma responses
Secondary Traumatic Stress in Nurses
Recognition
- Intrusive thoughts/images from patient disclosures
- Emotional numbing or detachment from patients
- Heightened anxiety or hypervigilance
- Avoidance of DV cases or related topics
- Changes in world view — increased cynicism
- Sleep disturbance, irritability, concentration difficulties
Mitigation & Support
- Regular clinical supervision with trained supervisor
- Peer debriefing after complex or distressing cases
- Clear professional boundaries and self-awareness
- Access to Employee Assistance Programme (EAP)
- Organisational responsibility: adequate staffing, training, support
- Reflective practice — maintain professional reflective diary
GCC Nursing Regulatory Competencies
DHA / DOH (UAE)
- Safeguarding competencies required for all clinical nurses
- Mandatory DV/safeguarding training modules in CPD
- Nurses have formal duty to report and document
- DOH Abu Dhabi Safeguarding Policy Framework
SCFHS (Saudi Arabia)
- Saudi Commission for Health Specialties exam includes safeguarding content
- Child protection and DV recognition in nursing licensure curriculum
- Mandatory reporting requirements for registered nurses
- National Patient Safety Taxonomy includes DV indicators
DASH Risk Assessment Summary Tool
Select all high-risk indicators that apply. Tool provides risk level guidance only — clinical judgment must always be applied.
- Partner tried to strangle, choke, or suffocate you
- Partner has used weapons or threatened to kill you
- Partner has made threats to kill children or other family members
- You are afraid your partner will kill you
- Partner has abused alcohol or drugs
- Separation or divorce is occurring or planned
- Partner is mentally ill, has depression, paranoia, or erratic behaviour
- Stalking behaviour — following, monitoring communications, repeated unwanted contact
- Currently pregnant or gave birth within the last 18 months
- Previously called police or attended ED for domestic violence
GCC Exam Practice — MCQs
Click an answer to reveal the correct response and explanation.
- A. Proceed with assessment with the partner present to maintain trust
- B. Politely ask the partner to wait outside, citing hospital policy, and assess the patient alone
- C. Administer pain relief and discharge with follow-up appointment
- D. Contact the police immediately before speaking to the patient
- A. Negative screen — no further action required at this time
- B. Positive screen (≥11) — proceed to full DASH risk assessment and safety planning
- C. Borderline result — repeat HITS in 4 weeks
- D. Positive screen — mandatory police referral must be made immediately
- A. Language barrier preventing disclosure
- B. Lack of financial resources
- C. The kafala sponsorship system tying her residency status to her employer
- D. Cultural shame preventing her from speaking out
- A. Bruising to both forearms in various stages of healing
- B. Petechiae over the face, neck, and sclera with a hoarse voice
- C. Laceration to the forehead requiring suturing
- D. Bilateral periorbital bruising from blunt trauma
- A. "Patient claims her husband abused her, although this could not be verified"
- B. "Possible domestic violence — further investigation needed"
- C. Patient states: "He punched me in the face twice last night." Bruising noted: 4x3cm purple-yellow bruise over left zygoma. Body map completed.
- D. "Domestic violence suspected — social worker to review"